My life revolves around these two little people, my babies that are now growing entirely too fast. They make me smile (the title...) and they make me laugh; they make me cry and they make me mad. This job was not meant to do alone but I think so far I am getting the hang of it and I can only keep getting better and keep learning, they change so much everyday. There is a song that says "you're gonna miss this" and I know that I will one day. There are days that I just wish they were 12 and 16 (yikes, scary!) and then there are days I want them to stay my innocent little girls. Terrifying thoughts of the adolescent years run through my mind at times and I pray that we make it through.
I know it is going to take so many years for my kids to really truly understand the love I have for them. It took me having my own children to finally have that true respect and thankfulness for all that my parents did and all that they were and are. This parenting thing never ends, never. When your children grow they are still yours and you want to protect them and never let them hurt but they are going to. And there is nothing you can do but watch and feel your heart break right along with them and then help them pick up the pieces. I am truly blessed and am so proud of the family that I came from. I doubt she will ever read this so I can talk about her... My sister Molly, I hope that one day she understands the amazing people that are our parents, she is so ungrateful and young and naive, one day she will know, I pray.
Back to Emma and Ruby; Emma is so much fun and I see her little brain working all the time, she is learning to read and to write and she is still my little artist. She is constantly drawing and if you ask what she wants to be when she grows up she will tell you that she wants to be an art teacher, I really think that is what she will do to. She is a lot like me at that age, or so people tell me. She is very sensitive and cries easily, she has so much energy and is so good at making friends, she makes friends wherever we go. She is my beautiful, fiery little red head and I love seeing her progress in life. I can't believe my little baby is gonna be 7 this summer.
My little baby is no longer my little baby. She is two going on sixteen! She cracks me and so many people up. She has such a crazy huge vocabulary for a child her age, thanks very much to her big sister. I of course think that she is pretty brilliant too. The other day I was cleaning the house and she came up to me wearing a princess dress and grabbed my hand and said, "Dance with me!" I nearly cried, I will never, ever tell my child no when they ask me to dance with them, or read to them, or love on them, these are the moments that will come back to me when she is actually 16 and screaming that she hates me as she storms to her room. She is very intent on making sure people know she is Ruby, you call her anything else, for instance my dad calls her Rastus, she says, "i'n not Rastus, I Ruby!"
Well I could go on and on about them and life as a single mom but I will stop for now. I am so lucky and even though it is so hard and I am so very thankful for every time that I get a break, I got the much better end of the deal. At one time I though our family was broken but it really isn't. We are an amazing little family and have such a huge family of people in our lives that love us and support us. There could be a day that we add to our little family but as of right now I am content and excited for what is to come. I am not sitting around waiting, we are living life and loving life. My girls and I are doing great and I thank a very awesome God for getting us where we are and I pray that as He has in the past He constantly keeps us in his hands.
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